Right the story with this blog is based around a couple friends of mine...well haha you'll see in a bit.
Anyway i have these 2 friends a brother and a sister and it's almost impossible to maintain diplomatic relations with these two! arggghh haha. The story is that every time i speak to one of them, somehow the other one knows and won't talk to me. Now to talk to the other one i need to promise not to speak to the other one. *sigh* what a hassle.
So i'll tell you how i met them shall I?
The sister, Emmy i met while on a school trip to berlin, previously she'd never spoken to me before because apparently i looked scary (haha) and i was told that she was afraid i'd turn around and scream at her or something (cooorrrr what a first impression of me eh? hahaha NOTE: just for reference i'd never shout at anyone ;]) So anyway we got along quite well and we spoke alot during the trip and sometimes after. Now i met her first so she talked to me up until...
The brother, Jimmy i met after breaking up with my second girlfriend, its around this time i started hanging around lorna and amee more than normal, so anyway jimmy liked lorna (so did i, duh) so eventually the 4 of us were always hanging out quite a bit. me and jkimmy became friends from here tbh.
Now here's where it gets wierd... Emmy finds out im friends with jimmy and all of a sudden our conversations become very limited for "some reason". After certain circumstances involving me skipping out a party with lorna and jimmy to help out a friend who broke up with her boyfriend that night, neither jimmy nor lorna speak to me for...years? probably held a grudge as i never turned up (i'm sorry, it was kinda urgent =[ ). So yeah emmy starts talking to me again and jimmy stops talking to me...oh god <.<
Now recently this whole loop of events has occured similarly but less time. Anyway i've been storytelling, time for me to get to the point. Now i know every family is different but what is up with all this? with my sister i know her and acknowledge her existance. But i'm not really bothered who she's friends with or whatever, we never compete over anything and barely ever talk. Then theres a polar opposite where they're constantly picking friends depending on which one has more contact with a friend. But...
Why do i have to chose?
It's all a bit wierd if you ask me, both of them are awesome people so why do i have to ignore one just to /talk/ to the other? oh well i suppose theres nothing i can do about it. But its nice to rant about something every now and again.
